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6 Tips to forget the fear before the Wedding

Fear of commitment is not just an irrational phenomenon, but a rare phenomenon as well. This happens when you see many stories around you, that have lead to disappointment more than love. Anand Rathi, an experts from Reels and Frames Photography say that if you want to overcome the double thoughts that are going on in your head, then these 6 tips are just right for you to overcome the fear that you might have before your marriage.

Photo: Reels and Frames Photography.

 1. Visualize what you want

When your wishes are clear, honest and grounded in love, it is very easy to get rid of the fear of the future! If you are having weird thoughts, just remember why you started loving the other person in the first place, and also remember all the moments you spent together and the experiences that you have had together. Also remember as to where you are now, because of them!

2. Accept challenges

You would have lived the happy and sad moments with your partner, no matter what. Marriage is not about being perfect all the time, but finding the one who is willing to accept you and fall in love with your imperfections. This is worth living, instead of living your life, the way your partner wants to live. The thing is understood that there are two people and two different wants and needs, and everything should be done mutually and equally. There are many ways through which you can avoid the arguments in a relationship.

3. Appreciate the present time

Often, the concept of ‘forever’ can be over whelming, and can make us forget about the issues that we have in life.You might have the urge to stay with your partner until death, and what not, but you need to analyze things as well. You should always enjoy the present time as you will never be able to relive the past, and there is no point in thinking about the future as you never know about what the next moment holds for you. Living your present time helps you make better memories than thinking about the other things!

Photo: Reels and Frames Photography.

 4. Avoid negativity

It is a proven fact that the human brain works in such a way that a person remembers the negative things more clearly, than the positive things. Like for an instance, a person has the tendency to remember the negative things in a relationship that made them sad, than the positive things that made them happy. This means that it is high time you reset your thinking in you mind and focus on the positive things of a relationship. Life is full of happy moments that we often overlook or forget!

5. Forget deadlines

Marrying and having a family are very personal decisions, that require a lot of planning and mutual understanding. You really need to forget the face that you have to go according to the society. It is your personal life, and you have all the rights to secure your privacy and make your own decisions. You do not have to worry about the things that you need to do in a certain age or under certain circumstances; you have rights to do whatever you want to do. You can fulfil the goals whenever you feel like, and whenever you want to!

6. Express yourself

When you are in a committed relationship, you must be extremely honest with your partner. If you feel that you are fearing your future together, then it is advised to tell them. Once they know, there are chances that you would feel better, and that things can be good at the end. Once you get the habit of expressing your feelings openly, the commitment with your partner gets stronger, and fear is no longer an obstacle. Being honest with each other is the key to a healthy and long-lasting marriage.

Photo: Reels and Frames Photography.

It is very natural to be scared before your Wedding, and having weird thoughts about the same. Getting married and living your life with your partner is a really big step, and one needs a lot of courage for the same! But getting over with them is the best thing that one can do. There are many amazing things about a relationship, that can make you feel better about getting married to the one!

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