To have a good relationship, there should be constant efforts made by both the partner. There are certain things that should be avoided to make your relationship go effortlessly smooth and happy. A relationship is like a package filled with lot of love, drama, and some mistakes too which are obvious but if they are not seen before the danger flag appears, your relationship might take a rough way with lot of bumps and stones.
To make sure that you both make a happy couple, following are some things a girl should avoid to do in a relationship:
Girls are known to be good reactors to anything, which is of course a good thing. But it can be your weakness if you start over-reacting too much on sensitive matters. Sometimes, your guy just need somebody to keep his calm and listen to him rather than reacting to it and starts giving unwanted advices. You should know where to start and where to act. This is a very small care but can be very disastrous to you in many ways. You my react inappropriately on something and things can go wrong with you then.
Not everyone is a debate lover or is good at arguing and same goes for your guy too. If you both have any sort off argument where you need to clear off some things, don’t argue with him, just take few minutes to relax yourself and make him understand with a calm mind. If you start explaining your perspective to him during the argument, he would not want to pay attention to it and it will trigger off more mess instead. So, take your time out and avoid such situations.
Boys have some serious ego issues and greater insecurities then girls. If you start comparing your partner to your ex-partner or any other boy, he will never appreciate it and would think that he is not perfect for you.
We girls are really remarkable at remembering something that we disliked some months ago. This is something which doesn’t goes off our head very easily. If you argue with your partner about something he did wrong some time back, he will definitely think that you like to poke him on his mistake and can lead to an argument.
Don’t hold back what you feel. Try to speak out your inner thought in the moment you find the best suitable. If you hold back things for a long run and then speak them out together, it will cause an accelerated fight and will never be resolved because you have been thinking about that thing for a long time now and it will be difficult for you to forget about it.
Giving up on him
Don’t always say that you will break-up with him whenever he do anything wrong. Or don’t clue him that you will walk away if he do it again, it will assure that he will never repeat the same thing again but also induce in him a bigger fear of losing you which is not healthy for a relationship. He will not be able to do anything in front for you without giving it ten thoughts and you would not like that to happen.
We sometimes try to change our partner into someone whom we ideally think about. Nobody is ever perfect and you can’t expect your partner to be a perfect man. Loves his flaws and imperfections.
Avoid mistakes and do not forget to make feel special in the most possible ways you can. Relive your old moments and create new ones.