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9 Things you understand after spending years with the one

There are many couples who have to listen to the comments of the society after they get together. At the same time, we understand that dating is a mental, emotional and spiritual preparation, that need a lot of courage and strength. There are many things that only the couples who have spent many years together understand, and do not really need their previous relationships to refer to, when it comes to true love. Is it your case? Then this article is just for you! Hitesh Shivnani, and expert from Hitesh Shivnani Photography has the following things to share:

Photo: Hitesh Shivnani Photography.

 1. You don’t express much 

The looks, the gestures and the attitude of your partner makes you realize that something is wrong, without them telling you directly. This happens once you have spent a lot of time together. The most important thing is that you try to help your partner face the situation, giving them unconditional support from your side!

2. A discussion is not the end of the world

Maybe a fight today makes a couple stronger for the future. You have learned to solve problems, learn from them, and the best thing is that you have started appreciating the fact of being together in good times and bad times as well. You just know that you are there for each other, no matter what.

3. Prefer a quiet plan with your partner

Enjoy every moment with your partner in your present and future, and cherish the memories that you have had in the past. Every opportunity to watch a movie, cooking, or maybe just talking, it becomes the perfect occasion to feel loved and prefer those plans before anything else.

Photo: Hitesh Shivnani Photography.

 4. He is asked about, when you are not together

By going to some social or family gathering, your friends or family with definitely ask about where he is, and why he did not turn up. The best thing is that you have maturely learned to respond to all sorts of questions after so many years of hearing the same questions over and over again.

5. No I love you’s regularly

By now after so many years of being together, you do not need him to tell you about how much he loves you every now and then. Once in a while is okay, but not every time. Now, you would not be from those who ask their partners to say ‘I love you’ thousand times a day. You already know and you feel that it is a very strong feeling. If you get your messages or talk to him, you feel through every word and look, you feel that the love has grown over-time.

6. It’s part of the family

In family planning, travel, birthdays, festivals, your partner is totally your fundamental part. You will always accompany him, and if not, then it is already a part of your life! You know it is not a habit, but it is your best company that you have ever had.

7. You know how to surprise

When it comes to his birthday, you just know the right way to celebrate it; either do something special and surprise him, or take him to a surprise date.Some women are really complicated and confused at the same time about what they would gift their better half. But that is not at all a problem with you, right? You already know his likes and dislikes, and can impress him with your choices of gifts, that he had wished for.

Photo: Hitesh Shivnani Photography.

 8. You can do different things without anger

You can be doing different activities individually, may it be watch television, reading, or working, without getting angry at each other and disturbing each other. Some relationships are so strong and understanding, that one sacrifices what he wants to do, just to see you happy and be in your company.

9. You are proud of the relationship

You need to have a lot of patience to be with someone, even if you love them. There are many things that you may like or dislike, but you have no other option, but to accept them. You know how to respond calmly to the people who ask you random questions as to how you are with the same person for so many years, and you would be really proud to tell them that you LOVE your soulmate.  You know your long relationship has matured, and has not been in vain.

Photo: Hitesh Shivnani Photography.

 There are many aspects that only the two of you can accomplish, which the help of a third person. The people around you might say things like how you guys have spent so many years together, and that you have not got bored of each other, and all the weird things. But you know that all these years have brought the two of you closer and that has also increased the passion, the intensity, and the love between the two of you. Right? There are many amazing qualities about a man, that would make you love him more!

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