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How to be happy in long a distance relationship

Long distance relationships are never easy but with proper communication, trust and commitment it can become more stable and  stronger than a traditional relationship. The most common problem  in a long distance relationship is not being able to be around each other physically. The both of you will need to put in extra effort to make the relationship last. Love is the most important ingredient in a LDS and with little patience, adjustments and  loyalty, couples can avoid ruining a lovely relationship. Here are a couple of things that couples can do to avoid disputes in a long distance relationship.

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Stay in contact

When two people are not physically around one another it gets so hard to maintain a healthy relationship. You should always make sure that you keep in contact, via phone/messages. Nowadays technology has made it so much more easier to keep in touch with your loved ones. You can face time or skype whenever you are missing your partner, it might not be the same but it is good enough. Sometimes you should change it up and send handwritten letters, that is always a cute new way to surprise your partner.

Trust is key

Trust is such a major part of any relationship. If you do not 100% trust your partner, your relationship will not work. Especially as you are not with each other, just make sure that your partner has faith in you that you will be faithful and vice versa.

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Visit often or Surprise visits

To have a romantic relationship between two people who are living far apart, frequent visits can also keep the spark between couples. Meeting one another at regular intervals will ignite the love and affection between the two.

Support each other in bad times even at distance

If your loved one is sad make sure you are there for them as even though you are not there, you are probably the only one who they want to talk too. We understand its hard when you are not living in the same City/country, however these are things you have to look past and always be there for your partner.

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Commitment towards each other

If you are not committed and in love then a long distance relationship probably isn´t for you. Commitment is one of the most important things and if you don´t have this then you are getting yourself into a pointless union, and wasting your partners time, who may have true feelings for you.

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Making false allegations

The seeds of suspicion can result into a large tree of hatred. If you suspect that your partner is fooling around with someone that they are always hanging out with then this probably is not the person for you. You need to be able to completely trust you partner and not think that they are dating everyone that they are friends.

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Make common plans even at distance

You can have movie nights, even if you are in a different time zone, you can be watching the same movie and then discuss it after. There is a lot you can do, but the thing is you have to have the willingness to do rather than just giving up.

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Make each other feel special

Make sure that you both always say cute things and do cute things when you get the chance to show your appreciation for one another, as this is how the love will be stronger than ever.

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In short, the most important thing is to create a maturity, respectful and trusting in your relationship from the beginning. Put your bit and see how everything is going well with your partner in long distance relationship. Take care of these too How to be a Happy Couple: 10 Habits That Make a Difference and 11 Things you should Demand from your Partner without Hesitation in Relationship.

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