When a couple gets married, everyone wishes them a happy married life. They gracefully accept the wishes and hope the same in their hearts. People always think of getting married in the most fancy manner, get remarkable arrangements done and seek to be praised by all the attendants for this. For most of us, becoming talk of the town wedding hosts is a big deal but what we ought to forget is that the actual big deal is the life after all those shows and events, where you are now living in a real world and see if the wishes you got on your wedding day are turning up for you or not.
Now, how can we come to know if we are having a healthy and happy married life or not. It’s simple! If you and your partner are happy and are having a ‘yes’ to the following signs, then you definitely are the ones.
If you and your partner have a positive attitude for each other, keeping apart the love and care, then you both are going on a way full of happiness. It is necessary to have a respectful and positive gesture towards each other to maintain the harmony and you both can settle down with your arguments with greater ease. You also would want to surprise your partner, for which you can see 5 Ways to Make Him Feel Special.
No more difference
It’s believed that opposite attract and that might be the reason for you to get married but, now it’s been a long time and you both must no more be different from each other now. Everything from your likes, dislikes in anything must be congruent to a huge level. This is because you have spend a lot of time together and have learnt to accept each other’s preferences. So, this is pretty much a healthy sign.
Talk over things
Since you know each other so well, you would now prefer to talk about things instead of just holding them back in the fear of hurting your partner unintentionally. You very well are aware are of the weak points of your better half and do not like to touch them.
Not only love, care and understanding, some joy also adds up in the bonding of a good relationship. You both like to share your big and small moments by celebrating with each other and are likely not to be a dull couple. Even your ideas of celebrating are similar like, you may both booze or not do it at all!
Let it be years or months, your love for each other has not changed and even if it has, it has only increased and changed for good. You both still like to slip away on small get away, complement each other often, go out for a cup of coffee and spend some quality time together.
These are just a few things, but the major ones. There is more to a healthy relationship like, you spend more time with each other rather than on social life, care for each other’s families as well, support each other in the rough times and never let anyone of you go down. Also, you can get tips for How to get a happy and healthy relationship! Which you can also learn from your parents because our parents are the ideal example of the best couple.