Every girl goes through these thoughts when her elder sister gets married

For any girl, having an elder sister is one of the most amazing things of her life. No matter how much you and your elder sister fight over clothes, shoes, and makeup, you know she’s a piece of your heart and living without her is next to impossible. Not having her in the house feels incomplete even it’s for a day and the thought of her getting married makes you experience mixed emotions. Here are some thoughts every younger sister goes through when her elder backbone gets married.

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Who’s going to be my counselor ?

Be it a tiff with a friend, fight with a boyfriend, tension in office or frustration with parents, you can discuss everything with your elder sister and she will come up with the best and most comforting solution for it.

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Who will save me when i go for a night out ?

Who will secretly open the door when i sneak out at night ? Or who will lie to mom about me coming home on time when I actually entered at 4 a.m. drunk ?

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Who will get me water on order ?

When I’m sitting glued to the television watching my favourite movie, who will get me water, coffee, snacks that too when I order like a boss ?

Who will lend me money when I’m broke ?

The medium could be threatening or crying, an elder sister is the one who lends you money and never expects it back saving you from that long lecture every parent gives teaching how to value money.

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Who is going to do my makeup ?

Who is going to iron the back section of my hair or apply a winged liner or tell me if my makeup is looking cakey ! Oh God, moms can never replace sisters when it comes to that.

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I get the room and her closet to myself

Keeping the sad feeling aside, you cannot wait to have the entire room to yourself. Now that is something you aren’t that sad about. You know she’s going to leave behind a lot of clothes, shoes, bags, accessories and makeup and it’s actually going to load your cupboard giving you a new outfit for college or office every day.

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What am I gonna wear to her wedding ?

Your sister’s wedding is one of the most awaited events in your life and you want to look your best. Planning and shopping is going to start atleast six months before her wedding and it’s going to be one hectic event. How to avoid these common wedding mistakes

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What are we going to do once she gets married ?

Since you are now the sali, it’s going to be a fun phase. Tonnes of gifts from jiju and endless parties on every occassion, be it their first Diwali or first anniversary.

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What would be my Joota Chhupaayi plan ?

Joota Chupaayi is one of the most exciting traditions and mind you, it needs a lot of planning and smart execution. Being the head of one of the most important tasks of wedding, you along with your other cousins and friends, chalk out different strategies to make the joota chupai a success. Do you know who has to bear the load, the younger sister ! How to enjoy the big day and how to prepare for it

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Am I next ?

If you too have reached the ‘so-called marriageable age’, you will definitely be bombarded with the comment- tera number agla hai, from all your relatives at the wedding. So, be prepared girls ! Now since your elder sister is already hitched, the thought of “am I next” is inevitable ! How to be a good wife!

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Even though you feel really very happy to see your sister entering a beautiful phase of her life, deep down inside, you get slightly sad to see your best friend moving out. The thought that you will not able to see her at home at any hour of the day is something, which makes you sad amid all the celebrations and happiness.

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