When a girl get married she enters into a new role where she’s not only a wife but a daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and aunt too. It’s a tough task because we are expected to give our best in every role. Gel up with the new people is a quite fussy task as we are very new and does not know about the members of the family, we might think that in-laws are like monsters they can only create problems and blunder. Yeah! we have seen the stereotypes in-laws in movies, daily soap and even from our elders that their sister-in-law was such a vamp and played her role the best but wait all these things actually happens in reel life and by coincidence. So girls chill! don’t worry a sister-in-law is like a butterfly whose wings has so much colors and with those colors she spreads the happiness in family. She could be like your younger sister, you can get along with her very well it’s just you both need to understand each other and being her brother’s wife you should also love her and respect her dignity.
Having a sweet and great sister-in-law isn’t a mere dream. She’s dramatic, funny, crazy, kiddish, stubborn yet she’s lovable. You could have a great bond with her, and you can gel up with her. She’ll not only help you to get close to family but also she cherish the moments you spend with her, she might become your best buddy in the house or bestie, she will disclose all the secret to you even about your hubby. Having a sister-in-law is a blessing because you don’t need to miss your younger sister as you have her in a different version.
Below are the points through which you will get along with your sister-in-law
1. Sharing is caring
Nothing will touch anyone’s heart better than sharing and caring. It is such a positive feeling whom everyone acknowledges. You can share anything with your sister-in-law and she will do the same. She is so close to you after your husband in the family, and trust me she loves to be with you as you’re her favorite one in the family. Having not much age difference you can even share your dresses, accessories with each other and it will only strong your bond. You can share your feelings (the good one’s and the bad one’s) with her, Yeah! women have a tendency of mood swings so she will understand you better. Wait! have a look on the link How to be the perfect Bhaiya and Bhabhi on this Raakhi!.
Advises are not always welcomed by people especially by the young one’s but wait for a while your sister-in-law will understand your point in spite of getting irritated or embarrassed. She knows that you will not give her any false advice, you want her good well being. Advises are not only for the looks but also towards the career, friends and life. She will admire you as an individual and as the best friend too. Checkout the link The inevitable changes that you have to face.
In the different phases of life what she need to do and how to do, these are the questions which she might want to ask but couldn’t. So it’s your responsibility to guide her, show her the right path, she is still a child who have been in a protected shell of her family and friends, she’s sensitive and shy too. But being elder to her it’s your responsibility to make her understand and choose the right path. If she panics don’t worry, have patience with her, listen her and try to understand her perception.
4. Resolve Conflicts
We know every relationship have to go through the up’s and down but it doesn’t mean you will stop talking to each other. Ignoring isn’t a solution but yes, taking an initiative to do a conversation is. Try to talk to her if any conflict arise and don’t forget she is still the same person who understands you and now it’s your turn to understand her perception.
Quality of a good sister-in-law:
a) She makes you laugh
b) She protects you from criticism and from any other conflicts
c) She involves you with her family and friends
d) She is your stylist
e) She is stubborn and blunt and will go mad for shopping
f) She makes plans with you and love to do hangout with you
g) She don’t left any chance to show off to others having you in her life.
Don’t forget these qualities of a good sister-in-law. Having a sister-in-law is such a blessing as she makes you giggles, go mad for shopping and will love you badly. No matter where you are she will spread happiness and sparkles in your life. Don’t forget to follow the link How to make strong relationship bond with your in-laws.