A recent study has found that women who have doubts about getting married before the Wedding are significantly more likely to be unhappy with their partner a few years later. The author also cautioned that if you have doubts, it does not mean that you definitely should not get married. If there are negative aspects, then there are definitely positive aspects as well. The doubts are something that can get cleared, and the marriage can still end in a happy note. Experts from Lensight Photography tell us about the common thoughts that people have before the Wedding!
Family relationships
When you get married, you are entering a new family. To adjust in the new family, you need to get detached from your own family as well, so that your comfort zone changes as well. It is not easy at all, and it takes a lot of time to adjust in to a new family, with new people, new traditions and new culture all around you. Family politics and dynamics are very complicated and unique. Regarding this, you need to make sure that your fiance has a good communication skill, so that he can sort out things between you and the family that you are new to, so that there are no complications.
Cheating
There is no such history of cheating in a relationship. It is all the advertisements, movies and daily soaps that you watch, that have brainwashed you for the same. Trust is the only thing that can be rebuilt, and relationships can be way stronger after a betrayal. It is not sentimental at all. A third person should not, or rather, can NOT take over the relationship that you have your partner, and has no right at all to do the same. You have all rights on him, and you need to make sure that he is happy enough with you, and that he does not need the support of a third person!
Illness
Is it not terrifying to know that some one whom you are deeply in love with, has a very bad illness? In this case, you getting filled up with many questions regarding this is very natural. It is your right to know everything before a Wedding. Better late than never, right? You can also visit the doctor and try your best to make him get rid of the illness that he has, so that you have have a bright and a happy future together! Asking about these things before a marriage can be a little awkward, but at the same time, it is very essential as well.
Addiction
Addiction does not always mean having an addiction of drugs or alcohol. There are addiction to other things as well, may it be food, shopping, and at times, relationships as well. If your partner has an addiction about something, then there is possibility that the addiction can become a third person in the relationship. They spend more time doing the things that they are addicted to, more than spending time with you, which can also cause problems in a relationship at times.
Violence
Violence can NOT be accepted by any one, no matter who it is. It is something that can hurt you emotionally, mentally and physically. If there has been violence before the Wedding with you, then you really need to have second thoughts about the marriage. If not with you, and if you have seen your fiance being really violent with a person outside of your relationship, especially in front of you, then he clearly does not respect you, and there are less chances that he would not get violent with you as well. So, you better watch out woman!
Second thoughts
Never ignore your instincts. If you are having second thoughts about something, then it is high time you realize that there is something wrong. When it comes to marriages, second thoughts are really dangerous. If you are having them, then talk about it to your fiance or your family, and sort things out before they go wild and ugly in the future. Everyone wants a peaceful, amazing and a happy Wedding. Don’t you?
It is said that A happy marriage can save your life. Marriage is something that every individual looks forward to, after they have met their soulmate. But if a person is having doubts about it, then it is better for them to clear it as soon as possible, to avoid making the things worse. There are also many ways with which you can avoid arguments in a relationship, and have a happy life ahead!
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